‘Christian Dating vs. Worldly Dating- Big Differences’
We’re giving our best advice on how to honor God in your dating and exposing areas where our culture has it backward! We look at physical boundaries, what the Bible says and what we believe Godly dating should look like. 😊
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You guys make me so happy! You're such a young, bubbly and beautiful couple - the joy of the Lord arises in me when I see you two! I love your little nuggets of Godly wisdom too - your videos are very helpful for my 20 year old single self (lol).
Blessings upon you and your families! Lots of love from England xx
Sooooooo I have been dating the same guy for years we live together, have sex, kiss, we love each other and work as a team and we better each other the longer we spend together. We probably will get married in the next 10 years but we aren’t in any rush for that or kids. This is how mostly all of my friends live too. I think my reality is more modern and accurate view on ‘worldly dating’ rather than dating for material reasons or whatever view you put forward in this video? I don’t get why you are so judgemental of people.. isn’t THAT a sin?
I'm not a christian and I understand all that but we will disagree. I think dating should have a meaning but it shouldn't be about finding a future wife or husband. And about the rest, not all the people are the same.. It's not like christians want to get married and "worldly people" onlt want to haven fun and have sex.. No no no.. A misconception to correct.. Do your homework before judging.
i would have a slightly different perspective as to what a christian is Jesus said unless you are born again you cannot enter the kingdom of God'. so for me that is one of things that makes someone a christian living a Godly live is part of it but i think we need to start from the position of being born again many call themselves christian but if you ask them yes but are you born again then you know where their heart is at is what i think on that one guys
Who chased who? Because men are supposed to chase women right. But does that men that the woman should sit on her but and wait for the guy to ask her out or should she be friendly and chatting and go out looking for a hot guy?
We don't think a woman should sit on her butt and wait around. We definitely think that it's great to be brave and put yourself out there. It's okay to strike up a conversation with a guy but if you're the only one asking the questions or the only one texting back...that's when we say to pull back and let the guy do that rest.
I love your videos soooooo much and you guys have such a beautiful relationship I LOVE IT and I’m so thankful for your channel, as I’ve grown with my relationship with the Lord I have definitely been helped a lot watching your videos
I have watched through a lot of your videos today and really enjoyed them. I'm so happy that God has placed you two together to walk through healing and share the joy that can come of that. I would like to encourage you to include more biblical references in your beliefs as you're explaining them- so not only can people see your sources specifically but it will also hopefully encourage people to get into the word and watch videos like these as a complimentary aspect vs. the reverse. P.S. The verse you quoted in Song of Solomon really struck me when I read it for the first time and I remember wishing I had read it sooner in life.
Ummmm..... Paul? Morgan? Have either of you actually done any research on how dating works outside of Christian circles? With how vague the two of you are when discussing "worldly dating" (not to mention the fact the two of you were homeschooled and only one of you has gone to college) i'm getting the impression that you don't know anything about "worldly dating" that wasn't handed to you in the Sunday School lessons that you appear to have based the entirety of the content of this video on.
To be brief.... When it comes to your claim that opinions, education and training don't matter in this context, When it comes to teaching people facts, and how to succeed at life, education and training DO matter. Hence my question to Paul and Morgan. They brought up worldly dating to contrast it to their own dating experience. (because they are here on youtube to teach). But they do not seem to have any actual education on how worldly dating works; so I think that's unhelpful, and unfair.
Again their being homeschooled/having little to no experience in college is just to highlight the point that they are literally IMO preaching things that they don't understand. You should gain wisdom and knowledge before you teach. Because while anyone can share an "opinion" P&M have turned talking about their opinions into a full-time-job; apparently without at any point learning to have professional-tier research skills and the requisite knowledge. And that is a dangerous thing!!
Just for the record. The amount and way(s) of education is not relevant. Being Homeschooled and/or going to college improves your academics/future career but personal beliefs are on a different level. Even if someone were in their 20s and didn't learn addition and subtraction I'm sure they can still decide for themselves what they believe.
It is a bit offense that you chose to add the education part in there when I know what Homeschooling is really like and kind of sounds like to me that you don't like Homeschooling and think that that's why they are talking this way. Correct me if I'm wrong of course because I may have completely misunderstood but that seems like what you're saying.
Either way, I also know others (who have gone/go to all different colleges and highschools) who are still able to make their own decisions on things like that. Whether you are/were Homeschooled or went to college or not, your beliefs aren't decided by the amount of education you have or will get (Generally speaking).
Also, yes, this "method" of dating is not something only Christians use. Being intentional is important in any relationship–religion/beliefs aside.
Although I have actually noticed the kind of "worldly" dating they are referring to because I have witnessed it from some of my closest friends. From what I have observed, I think it is most common among (but not limited to) high school girls.
Lots of times they do things to try and "fit in" or it's a way of escaping something for them (like maybe a rough home life). Sometimes it's just because they feel unloved and that's how they are trying to feel loved. Seeking fulfilment in places that will ultimately fail, dissatisfy, disappoint and/or let you down in the long run.
Sometimes it's for lack of confidence because no one has ever excepted them for who they are (not always that specific situation but lack of confidence itself is also a reason).
All the more reason to reach out to the new and/or shy kid(s) at school! We can help them to feel accepted just by reaching out. Like sitting with them at lunch or something.
A small gesture goes a long way and it might sound kinda cliche but it's true.
But like I said before this is just from what I have observed. Of course this isn't always the case. It's just giving some "eyewitness examples" of what type of "Worldly dating" they are referring to.
Sorry if this is offensive. This is just my opinion and feelings on the matter.
*NO HATE OR FORCEFUL OPINIONS INTENDED*
I'd actually like to hear your thoughts on this too if you want and/or choose to share them. 🙂
I totally agree with what you guys are saying. It's so hard though when at least the guys iv met don't agree with this even if they are "Christian" and I agree with not awakening the sexual part of the relationship until u can go all the way. But most of the guys I know would never be down for that. Any advise on how to stay strong with this and find a good real Christian guy?
You don’t have to be christian to date with the intent of marriage. You can be conservative and thoughtful with dating while also being athiest or of a different faith. You’re describing worldly dating as kind of being reckless, which isn’t always true.
Another thing about worldly dating is that the breakups can seem to be more bitter- fighting and leaving it as awkward & hating/not talking at all. I feel like if a christian couple broke up, it's more mutual and respectful, wanting the best for each other even if it's hard.
Hi Paul and Morgan, I’ve just discovered your videos and I really like them. I am fairly new to knowing God and I wonder what your thoughts are on being in a relationship with someone who isn’t Christian?
Just because you’re not biblically dating doesn’t mean you’re not looking for a life partner to marry. I didn’t find got until way after marriage and still dated my now husband at 16 with the unrest of marriage, I was not a woman of faith at that life. Our relationship was amazing and still is
Loved the video! So glad to hear your insights and I love that you guys arent wishy washy and say this bad but if you do it its ok. (that stuff irritates me so much) Also, You guys should consider also do stickers or enamel pin merch too! I am so excited and I can afford to buy some when it comes out! Also you guys should do a video on your ferrett!! I am thinking of getting one and am interested in just seeing how it lives/acts and pros and cons, ect.
Dating the biblical way @0:58? I just have to say something: there is no biblical way of dating because back then, people didn't date; they had arranged marriages. Just needed to add that (Disclaimer: I am not against this channel, I really love it and their advice, but when Morgan said there is a biblical way of dating, I'd say, "Hah, I'd like you to try to find biblical evidence of dating in the Bible!" :) :) :)
The bible doesnt say the words dating courting but it does make it clear wen the man or woman has an interest in another... Or if the holy spirit tells them or gives them visions that thats the one theyre gonna marry... Then the lord also says things that should not be done if ur not married...
Daniel Lee okay based off the stories i read in the bible.... There was no arranged marriages.... Esther wasnt arranged... Cuz the king spent time with every girl and choose the one he liked (which took 7 years)... Which was esther... He picked her cuz she was different from the others... And Racheal story wasnt arranged .... Racheals sister was arranged unknowingly but jacob didnt even want leah... Just racheal... And the servants were servants theres were arranged thou but just for the purpose of having kids... And moses and his wife... Wasnt arranged... Wen he left the Egyptian palace and stayed with a tribe/group he fell in love with the chiefs daughter... And she loved him back... Its not like these women went to the wedding alter not knowing who they marrying or didn't love... They loved these men and married them....
so we're not gonna talk about the fact that she has a tattoo? I mean like idc but it just seems kinda hypocritical to act all perfect and then just putting on display your tattoo, which the Bible clearly says not to have. not hate, just confusion I guess? (also idk her background or anything so it could just be that she got it before she found god)
+Sierra B Then why is it in the bible? To be ignored? Do you also ignore the 10 commandments? Genesis? You either follow it or you don't. Or, just like this couple, you cherry pick what is convenient to you and say you follow the lord. They don't, they follow their own version of what they want, and have the audacity to come to youtube and "teach" and pass judgement on others based on their cherry picking.
Who brainwashed y'all to believe there is such a divide between "Christians" and "the world"? Who said that people who aren't Christian are living such a life of debauchery? So disgustingly judgmental and exclusionary.
I have no idea why their videos started getting recommended to me. But I swear I get some sort of of near mild ptsd watching their videos from the absolute torture I went through growing up in church and with “Christians”. All so brainwashed. All so judgmental.
No one said people who arent christians are living a life of debauchery... Worldly dating is people who believe or push the idea that dating is all about what u like... And that livng together and and having sex before marriage is ok to get to know a person better... Thats worldly dating... N there is divide between god fearing christians and the world.
Seems like you guys are thriving in your relationship and that is really beautiful. The way you frame worldy dating seems a litte odd to me, though. I don't know if you had experience with it but from my perspective (almost) everyone serious about a relationship is looking for the things you are mentioning and also feels like they have found this in each other: a partner they will stay with forever, that they truly want the best for and they will commit and fight for. What you describe as a worldy relationship surely does exist but instead of calling it the type of relationship non-Christians have, I'd call it a non-serious high school relationship.
I know people who dated just to date ... They didn't like being alone or single to they looked for someone.... Ik who dated for money... I know people who dated for dumb reasons... Its not nonexistent... Theres always gonna be people who are like the people he described.
Well I've done some worldly dating but Christian dating is so much harder because I started diving in and asking more serious questions so now I scare men off because they are like whoa not ready for that! Yikes
Mary Swenson from a mans point of view, it’s all good having a laugh etc and finding out about the person, but I know from personal experience, the serious questions need to be dealt with as well, that way you’ll find out if they’re serious about their walk with Christ.....
Yes! Love how you clarified what you mean by "Christian", Morgan!!! A lot of people are soooo confused about what it means to really be a Christian, like a Bible-believing, Christ-follower. Oh I completely agree!!! Dating is not like shopping but so many people act like it is. God created us to live with purpose in all areas of our lives and that includes dating :) You guys never fail to make me laugh :P Ooooo sooo excited for merch!! #forSUREyes to the sweatshirts :D Love you guys and stay stellar <3
madison clarke you are correct that genesis is not to be taken literally, but it is counterproductive to the spread and flourishing of Christianity to point this out in a condescending, un-christ-like way. Kindness is more important than knowledge.
A Christian to me is someone who isn't just a Christian also a Born again Christian who gave his or her life to God and Jesus. Like Jesus said we must be Born again. Awesome to see another video. God bless. Yeah very important to be equally yoked. My goal is to be single until I start a Christian ministry been since July and after that well see what God wants for me. Its not easy however important to keep trying to do my best to live for God and Jesus with their help. Always good talking about God and Jesus. How important to share the gospel with more people to hear the truth. And the truth shall set you free.
Guys! We loved how you contrasted the two 'types' of person! It was great how you went through some of the reasonings people give for just dating people casually. 💗 This was a fantastic video - we definitely have to make sure that we are willing to commit even when it's hard!
ALSO thanks for the Instagram shoutout! You guys are the best! 👍🏻💗
Hey guys! I sometimes wonder about the relationships where people date for 5 + years and never get married or engaged. What's that saying? "Why but the cow when you get the milk for free" or something like that?! 😀 There's also this cycle of getting so involved emotionally, spiritually and physically with someone only for it to be temporary and move on to the next person and the next just adding more and more baggage. I hear that Dua Lipa's "scared to be lonely" song in my head now 😆 I'm not gonna lie...I'm so glad my husband I met when we did bc it would've been hard to be single longer, but it's also tough being married at times too so 🤷🏽 haha! 💜
Recently found your channel and have been binge watching all your videos! They’ve been such a blessing!
I saw Morgan has a sweet tattoo on her arm lol! I was wondering if you could do a video on Christians and tattoos? Thanks! Keep up the good work 😁
Hey guys this is important, and thanks for bringing it up! But here is some constructive critisism. If you make your videos too casual and too messy, people will not get the message. The newest videos has been in that way, so keep it in mind :)
I believe it depends on the person and being “real” and “raw” is the best. It shows that you guys are imperfect and so relatable. Every one of us can relate to being a bit messy at times, yet the message has always been clear. I know you guys are reaching out more towards the youth/nonchristians with your advice and messages but as a married mom, I enjoy being reminded and ministered to. The way you guys present it is fun and refreshing. I definitely will be sharing your channel to my nieces and nephews. Praying the Lord keeps you both on track and continues to bless your channel and all your hard work that you both have put into it. 🙏🙏🤙
Even though I'm not wanting to be in a relationship right now, I still watched this video because of you guys. LOL By the way, I'm really excited about the merch, and can I just say, Morgan, your hair is gorgeous! ❤️
By the way about merch you both should come up with some type of Logo . I like your muscle shirt Paul . You should come out with a muscle shirt as one of your merch items with like something to represent you both on it . Maybe an inspiring Bible verse or quote ???
Hi Paul and Morgan . Iove your videos you both are so funny and I actually really enjoy them . Thank you so much for your awesomeness haha 😂 One of these days ya'll should go live . That would be so cool if we could ask you questions live especially since I don't really use social media im only on YouTube . So please consider it !!!!!!!!!! 😂
I came to some conclusions too on the comparison. I know this Christian guy who serves others and really listens to his friends, and I think one major difference for me is to date someone who serves others and points me towards Christ in conversations. I really enjoyed this video, and I think there's a lot to be said about the huge differences between the two.
I agree I feel like you should date someone who leads you to Christ and within your relationship you and your partner are becoming strongerwith God and closer to God . If God's in the center of a relationship everything falls into place .
The young culture is so lost and twisted. Good is bad and bad is good. smh it shouldn't be like that so youngsters watching this... FOLLOW CHRIST, THEN YOU WILL FIND YOUR ULTIMATE FULFILLMENT AND BE HAPPY
HEY P&M FAM! What are your thoughts on Godly dating vs worldly dating? Should the two look differently?
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